Heartbreakingly beautiful lessons I learned about Brotherhood, presence, and love through tragic loss — “Well, this should be something,” I thought to myself on the plane. I was heading to Austin, TX with my somewhat-new-ten-years-younger boyfriend to stay in a house with a group of very-new-to-me-people, including AJ’s 6 closest fraternity brothers. Their group has a long distance friendship, and we were all meeting…